Hot older man, innocent younger girl- sounds gross right? Maybe a little inappropriate? Or just plain weird? The negative connotations that come with being in a relationship with a huge age gap can be wildly taken out if context. Most importantly, it turns people off in the worst way; society normally refers to a relationship like this as “Lolita”, taboo. It is forbidden and makes the guy look like a creep who is preying on this young girl who has no idea what she is getting herself into. However, when you really take the time to see the dynamics of the relationship you will quickly learn that in the case of a younger woman with an older man, it is normally the girl who pursues the man. She is not confused or lost or best yet, looking for a “daddy”. She is likely looking for something meaningful and drama free. Women mature faster than men (there is no surprise there) and the last thing a girl wants is to feel as though she is a parent, caretaker or in charge of her man. An older man provides maturity, responsibility and excitement; there is no questioning if he has a job, a life of his own, or a general appreciation and respect for women. Dating an older guy is an exciting experience; you get to step into a world where not everything is a huge fight and a 36 hour break, no one is coming to your house and acting crazy because they “can’t live without you”(besides a genuinely crazy person). Dating an older guy allows for you to see how green the grass is on the other side and the difference that dating an older guy can make in your life. Here are 12 drama free reasons to take a chance on an older man.
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Sunday, 16 August 2015
12 Reasons Why Women Prefer To Date Older Men
Hot older man, innocent younger girl- sounds gross right? Maybe a little inappropriate? Or just plain weird? The negative connotations that come with being in a relationship with a huge age gap can be wildly taken out if context. Most importantly, it turns people off in the worst way; society normally refers to a relationship like this as “Lolita”, taboo. It is forbidden and makes the guy look like a creep who is preying on this young girl who has no idea what she is getting herself into. However, when you really take the time to see the dynamics of the relationship you will quickly learn that in the case of a younger woman with an older man, it is normally the girl who pursues the man. She is not confused or lost or best yet, looking for a “daddy”. She is likely looking for something meaningful and drama free. Women mature faster than men (there is no surprise there) and the last thing a girl wants is to feel as though she is a parent, caretaker or in charge of her man. An older man provides maturity, responsibility and excitement; there is no questioning if he has a job, a life of his own, or a general appreciation and respect for women. Dating an older guy is an exciting experience; you get to step into a world where not everything is a huge fight and a 36 hour break, no one is coming to your house and acting crazy because they “can’t live without you”(besides a genuinely crazy person). Dating an older guy allows for you to see how green the grass is on the other side and the difference that dating an older guy can make in your life. Here are 12 drama free reasons to take a chance on an older man.
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